More advice. :)

 my list of things, that will help in these different scenarios of life.

In regards to: guys are jerks~~ (Hearing a lot about that one for the past couple years) :

Lots of guys do care, I know I care about everyone's feelings, and I know lots of guys say the same thing and make it a lie. I personally don't care if I look like a good person to other people, because I know I can't please everyone, but I care if I look like a good person to myself, and I know i try my best to be the best I can be. Guys aren't perfect, many guys don't care, and in life everyone is going to get hurt, but the truth is, what should influence you, is all the good in life. Take what's bad and learn from it and move on, take what's good and keep that, every girl in the world needs comfort at some time in their life, same with every guy, nobody is unbreakable and we all have emotion.  People do hurt others, but we have to ignore those that hurt us, we have to get past those that damage us, and then repair over time. We have to look to a better future. Too many guys love playing games, as well as women, and it hurts people. If more people tried to stop it that would help; for instance  friends that know other guys that cheat, or friends that know someone is a danger. I wish more could be done, well it can..its just not. I know it feels like it's too much repetition sometimes with relationships going on, and then ending quickly because the person isn't who you expected them to be, but humans can take a lot emotionally and still recover, and make things better, always. It's only too much when you decide it is and give up. And yes, I realize girls aren't perfect either. Girls can be crazy, guys can be crazy, but eventually we all find the person that we know we will always be happy with.

If someone like an ex, or a friend, or a stranger insults you: I can tell you that you’re above that, and they’re wrong. Words can hurt but really it's not true, when someone is nasty or treats you poorly, don't take it personally. It says nothing about you but a lot about them. that’s beneath you and you don’t deserve it, and you're not any of those things people insult you with, smile because they’re wrong, smile because you know they’ll be gone eventually, and smile because your’re better than that. Be the better person and don’t let it get to you, anyone who does insult people will get karma while you’ll be left there remembering they had it coming. If you smile at your enemies, it's like this, "Killing them with kindness", because they're just looking for a reaction from you. Don't insult them back, just keep being happy, what others say about you is just their reflection, not yours.

If you recently broke up: You learned from it, and I suggest you just have to move on and find someone else, you’re a step closer to finding the right person. Remember there’s a reason you broke up, either way it wasn't meant to be. You’ll be happier knowing he wasn't the right person for you, or she wasn't the right person for you. If it wasn't going to work out anyway then there’s no reason to be sad, just take the happy memories with you and be happy you had a great time. Focus on distracting yourself and having a good time without that person, your life before them wasn't as bad as you remember it to be. Remember there isn't always just good stuff to any relationship, remember there was bad too and they weren't "perfect", because nobody is perfect. You will still find someone in the future though who you will see as perfect. Remember, you still have people who care about you, don't let one relationship bring you down. Everyone experiences heartbreak, some people worse than others, but it goes away. On average it can be about 8 months before you're really over someone.

If you know someone very ill: Be there for them, let them be proud of you, and you proud of them. Keep your head held high, and remember everything good that ever happened with the memories you had with that person, love them like they've loved you, pray to God (if you're religious of course), Hope for the best and expect the worst, that way you won't fall as hard. If they pass away, remember it's okay to be sad, it's okay to let all emotion out, everyone who knows and is close to that person will be sad just like you and you won't be judged.Take what you learned from this sick person and keep it close forever, maybe sometimes things don't seem perfect, but imperfection is perfection, that's why things are the way they are, nothing I can say will change what's happening or reverse it, except the fact I said this lets you know I care and i'm here. If you're an atheist, then hey, I understand you're sad, that's normal and if you feel like crying, that's okay, let it out. If you don't take comfort in knowing there is a God just remember, this is the cycle of life, remember everyone dies, it's part of our lives, it's huge, death happens everyday, but we lived our lives and sometimes our time comes quicker, same with people we know. It is sad, but when you can't do anything about it, don't blame yourself for anything, and don't regret anything you could've done, because what's happened, happened. Personally, I've been through this recently, my grandfather just passed away after being in the hospital for several weeks. My family visited him, and saw him, most of the time he was sleeping, other times he couldn't even talk. Just being there for them though is really all you can do, and try to make them comfortable as possible and making sure your family is there for each-other.

If you're having a fight with someone: Take a step back and take an objective view on things, do you really want to be sorry for anything you're going to say later on? NO. nobody wants to regret anything, be the bigger person and end the argument, doesn't matter what it is, remember, STOP IT. the point is fights are awful, we don't need them, life is short and we're not going to remember most fights in the future just like how you forgot lots of fights you had in elementary school.

If you need help finding friends: Hey, if you can't find friends already it's because they can't accept you for who you are.  You're you and you should never change, friends are people we hang out with and trust and use as a shoulder to lean on. Friends are people that also make us laugh, but the real friends aren't ones you make in high school  its the ones you keep even after you leave high school. Go out and meet new people, just jump into the world. Make plans and go see movies, or join a club, or team, or talk to people at work. The problem could even be that you're too hard on yourself and you think people won't accept you so you're too scared to even approach someone. If that's you, then stop, you have 7 billion people in the world, even if you're rejected by one person to be a friend there will be an enormous amount of other people who would be willing to be your friend, take chances.