First Advicey post.

Hey everyone, this message will most likely include you. So, personally, i'd suggest you keep reading. This is a shared message, a message that everyone should share and get across to everyone. This message is for those who are really struggling, or know somebody who is struggling. Personally, I'm kind of sad right now... I had all this typed up, and then the laptop stopped working and it got deleted. You can imagine my frustration, imagine thinking you just created the most epic masterpiece of writing, your favourite, and then it's just gone in seconds. Or, simply put, it's like Leonardo Da'Vinci finishing the Mona Lisa, and accidentally dropping it. ANYWAY! Here’s the message. :) I know there are so many people in this world who struggle, so, I want to let you know personally, I'm sad, for the sad people. 

This message is for the people who cry every night because they miss someone close to them, or several people close to them. This message is for the people who are bullied every day; and for the people who are judged because they are different. This message is for the people who wish they could go back in time just to change all the wrongs, this message is for all the people who live in an unhealthy atmosphere full of fighting. This message is for all the people with friends who backstab them, and this message is for all the people who are filled with a negative sense where they just simply feel like giving up.

Remember, this message really is for all of you, you can share it, you can live up to it, you can teach it. Did I say that I had started my message in the first paragraph? Oops...Well hey, now you know more about the message you're really about to read. Remember this.

For the people who have lost close friends or family, hey, I understand, i've lost plenty of family, and I know what it's like. If you're the type of person who feels like you're going alone through this, remember you are NOT alone. I repeat, not alone. Speak out to close members, or people that knew the people that passed away, they share your pain. We all go through this stage differently, and you might just feel like other people already moved on, but really they're also keeping it up bottled inside. If you're crying, and you reach out for help, remember other people won't always know how to react, but they do care. You can have a parent yelling at you, and it can be the meanest things! But they still love you, and they care about you, they're just frustrated at the situation, not you. If you feel nobody will be there for you, remember I will be there for you. I am here for you. :) And I know that there is DEFINITELY somebody else who will want to be there for you. If you lost someone, look up because they're smiling from above and they're in such a lovely place. Those who passed away would definitely want you to keep you living your life, not to stop and stay in the past, we have to move on, or we kill ourselves in the process of losing someone else. You have SO much to live for, you have everything, if you're not far now, remember every journey starts with a simple step in the right direction. There are people in this world with so much love, and understanding. They want you to feel good too! And it's understandable if you miss someone that has passed, sometimes we just have to realize they're in a better place. We will see them someday again, not until we have lived our lives though, and we can live our lives the way we want. I know every day can be a struggle when you're used to seeing them, and somethings just so easily remind you of that person, when we get reminded, don't cry because they're gone, smile because you got the chance to get to know them! There are billions of other people on the planet who didn't get that chance.

For the person who is bullied, where you are now in life may be so low you just want to give up, right? But don't. Think about all the bullies right now for a second, picture their faces and who they are. Now, are they perfect? no. Obviously they've made mistakes such as bullying, and true beauty is on the inside of someone's soul, and they're probably going through a lot themself. In a while from now, they will look back and really wish they hadn't of said those mean things, and they will say, "That's not who I am.." and they will feel bad. The key to getting past this is realizing that the bullies will always be around, people will always be mean, but it's up to us to stand up. We have to stand up in the right way, people have to be together and help eachother out. If you can't have that happen, that’s fine. We still have our own lives and the bullies are a small part of our lives that just want to make us feel bad. Anything they say at all, just know it isn’t true. You may not be perfect, just like how nobody else is perfect, we all have our flaws, but hey! You’re you, and nobody else in the world will ever be you again. You will be the only person ever to have your thoughts, and everything else about you, that you are. You choose your own destiny, and offense is taken, don't accept what they say about you. In your head, just go "that's not true i'm not what they're calling me". "Not true. They’re wrong." and so on. Continue to look in the mirror and be PROUD of who you are. You're special, and you got a whole entire future ahead of you filled with greatness to prove that. Besides, they don't have the right to tell you who you are! Nobody does, you are who you are, and you decide for yourself alone who you want to be.

Now, if your friends are backstabbing you, you need to get new friends! Real friends treat eachother with respect, and real friends help eachother out. Real friends are the ones who will be there for you to pick you up and make you feel good about yourself, not bad about yourself. If you feel like you can't leave those friends, it's because you're not ready to forgive them and move on. Remember, forgiveness sure won't change the past, but it will change the future. Friends can be found in the most random ways, and you might have trouble making friends, but try to join a club, or team, or start relating to people and going out to meet others. Make plans and go out to the movies, and just meet new people, trust me, there are a lot of friends people out there I bet you haven't met yet. Remember, not everyone obviously will want to be your friend, but it's kind of like asking someone on a date, some people will say yes, others will say no, appreciate the good friends you do have though if they say yes, don't get sad if not everyone wants to hangout. :) Now, if you're judged everyday, be it appearance, culture, or religion, just smile! When they judge you, ignore it, they probably don't even understand everything about you, or what you even believe in. Smiling annoys your enemies best, because they can't win. No matter what they say, it doesn't matter, you stand up for what you believe in, and you can keep believing what you believe in, if they judge you, you can stand up and tell them how you feel (in the positive, assertive way) not to create an argument, or you can ignore it and not let it get to you. It's your call, it depends on your personality. Remember, you are who you are, and if they can't accept you, find someone else who will. Speaking of judging, I wanted to get to the next point, family! Now, if you have a family that disagrees a lot, or fights a lot, I truly do feel sorry for you, I know that can be rough! Everyone in the family has a different role, and if there's disagreements, personalities can clash, people can yell, or throw tantrums, etc. If this happens, don't get yourself in the argument, be the mediator, be the peacekeeper. Try to calm everyone down, or if you're the one in the argument, you be the responsible person and calm down, and see what's best. If you're parents are constantly yelling at you everyday because they think you don't listen to them, start listening to them, it's not giving up, it's being mature. Time passes and it's better to have family peace than to do what you want. Not always, in different situations it can be complex, but if you sit down and talk about it all peacefully and try to come up with a solution, it's a whole lot better! Compromise and Collaboration are the best solutions to conflicts, with compromise we lose something, and gain something, and the next time the other person loses something for you, if they don't, that's when you get problems. You have to talk about how you want to solve those issues respectively.  

If you feel like giving up, remember, you're alive now, you have a choice, you've always had a choice, I will tell you right now though, the right choice is to keep fighting for happiness. It is never a good time to give up, and if you keep on living, life will surprise you! You will always have ups and downs, but you learn from the downs, and feel so good at the ups! I can guarantee you that in the future, if you listen to these next steps, you will feel at least a little better.

We all have our own passions in life, LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO. For me, my passion is helping people, I find it so incredibly satisfying, and I know it's something I can always do. Your passion can be singing, writing songs, writing books, writing poems, or playing an instrument, or doing dance, or painting, or playing a sport! You can create future plans, go travel the world, and experience life, it will BLOW YOUR MIND how incredible this world is, it is incredibly beautiful and nature is so filled with spectacles. Living your life in a healthy way is also best, advice: eat healthy, exercise, spend time with people that care about you, and get proper sleep. You will feel relaxed when you do this, and trust me, it gets easier if you just do these things.

Still, if you feel like giving up, remember things will get better. :) People every year commit suicide and it's so sad, it affects everyone in the community, people are scarred for life with the memories of their loved one, and it's so hard to ease that pain. If you just live life and find the good in it, because there is good, you will find all those things you hold value to. This is only the beginning, it does get better. If you read all this,thank you so much for reading, please be sure to remind yourself once in a while that you're a beautiful person with a soul of an angel, you deserve better, and you can live your life the way you want. :)